I have come to realize I make a major decision after few conversations and maybe (if I’m feeling nice) one date.  That decision, drum roll please, is if I even want to try to date them.  I ask myself:
 “Do I like his personality?”  Got to check this first and …

The hardest part of dating is getting use to the person you’re seeing.  We all have habits and traits that others dislike.  On top of learning regular stuff about them, you have to learn how to deal with the traits you do not like very much.  Trying to figure out …

I am going to admit it, I am scared to fall in love again.  I have been told and believe I do not have unconditional love (in relationships).  I know it may seem strange, but I don’t love unconditionally.  Maybe my expectations of love are out of whack.  Or what …

I like to cuddle.  I will admit I missed it a lot while in the LD marriage.  I enjoy being able to again.  Cuddling is so nice.  It is a level of intimacy, atleast to me.  Like a way to be intimate without doing too much.  Which is important while …

My new challenge with dating is finding my comfort zone. As we get to know each other better and figure out each others personalities the zone is being created. Though, I catch myself wondering if certain actions will make him feel uncomfortable or will be doing too much.

Some …

The best part of being single, well second to not having to deal with someone 24/7, is date night!  It is fun to get dressed up and all cute for a date!  Well, maybe I’m alone on this feeling.  I love it!  I even do my make up, more than …

The last few months of my marriage were long distance. I mainly only had to make time for phone calls. Now I am trying to find time and patience for dating. I do not have a super busy life. I got use to filling my time with other activities while …

I am loving life right now. Dating is fun! Not as fun as being boo’d up but fun none the less. I expected to find myself at home twiddling my thumbs and wishing I had stuff to do. This is so not the case!

I feel so free and …

I started dating! I met a nice man a few weeks after the separation whom I have been spending time with. I enjoy his company. I mean I really do, but a piece of me feels like I’m missing out. I am not sure what I feel I’m missing out …

I hate the getting to know you conversations. I mean deep Deep DEEP in my heart hate them! I don’t feel like replaying my whole life history. Naming my childhood best friends and pets. How I got my nickname. Where I did this and that. Why I did this and …

Now that I find myself single again.  I am trying to figure out where to go from here.  I am not the type to try to holla.  I normally just weigh through what tries to talk to me. 

Then there is the whole marital status situation.  I have to check the …

I was married on October 7th, 2007 in an intimate ceremony at The Stanley House, a beautiful Southern home in metro Atlanta.

Our wedding day was three months after we became engaged. I put a lot of work into planning our special day, but now that I look back I …