Its your wedding, DO YOU and it will come out FABULOUS….

Do something fabulous, wild, unexpected and complete indicative of who you and your FI are… I promise you will not regret it….

This video is complete and total proof… Myshell Curry and Hannibal Tabu…. Ya’ll betta do WORK…All i can say is SNAPS for the KIDS…..

Please prepare yourself… Its about to be SEVERE UP IN HERE!

Wonderful words always make me feel so good…

Okay. Let me hype myself up about this fantabulous introduction.

::blasts Kriss Kross “I missed the bus”::

That’s better. For some reason, I always feel hype after listening to Kriss Kross.

Hey everyone. My name is Ebonee Monique and I am one of the newest BABBIE bloggers. For those that don’t know me, here’s a picture of my mug!

And here’s yet another when I thought I was giving the photographer the sessay face. Yeah, it turned out to be the constipation face.

I was so extremely excited when Senam reached out to me to blog; of course I couldn’t say “yes” quick enough! So here I am, blogging about my upcoming wedding on March 5, 2010 (don’t burst my bubble, I know it’s not upcoming, exactly).

A little bit about me: I’m 27 (ugh…that’s hard to type as my birthday was Sunday 5/24), I’m a published author (pick up “Suicide Diaries” TODAY!) and I’m pretty much the definition of awesomeness. Well, maybe not the definition…but I’d like to think I rank within the top 10 of awesome people. I’ve always worked a full-time gig to support my writing habit and up until May 8, I was working advertising/marketing for a tourism agency. Yeah, you guessed it…I got the dreaded pink slip. I wish I could’ve been more devastated…but the truth is I know God has all of this planned out and I’m not questioning anything that’s in his plans.

My fiance, Marvin, and I have been together for 3 years. We were strictly friends (didn’t even think about dating each other) for a year and a half before we realized we were what each of us needed in a mate.

Here we are 3 months into dating!

(by the way, only true players go to Bonefish Grill!)

And a few more pictures of us!

We are planning a laid-back, family-oriented, wedding that will definitely not break the bank. Now, don’t get it twisted, just ’cause it’s not breaking the bank doesn’t mean it won’t break trends, boundaries and any myths that budget weddings aren’t as classy, fun or nice as bank-breaking weddings. Shout out if you’ve got $50K+ to devote to a wedding, but since I didn’t grow up dreaming about a wedding, Marvin and I refuse to spend crazy $$ on one day (even though it’s the biggest day) and be in debt later on because of it. I’m claiming now that the wedding won’t go over $12,000 and I guarantee it’ll be nice!

Our ceremony will be outdoors and the reception at the same venue, but inside. Here are a few pictures of our venue.

For a while, we were struggling with our theme and how we could tie it in to who we are as a couple. I love how our venue feels reminiscent of North Florida (where we live) and also the southern states we both grew up in. Because of that, we decided to tie all of that in together and go with a SOUTHERN COMFORT theme.  Here’s the inspiration board for our theme!

As you can see, our colors are teal/aqua and black and white damask.

Something new pops in our heads everyday and I can’t wait to share the ride with y’all.

As a warning: I have indecisive days so don’t shoot me, m’kay?

CIAO

Ebonee Monique

Well, turns out that she knows a thing or two about weddings–she will be married to rapper Derrick ‘D-Nice’ Jones in Atlanta on August 23, 2008.  Now many of you BABs might be saying that she can’t have the same problems as you.  Hmmph.  I will let Ms. Williams’ words speak on that:

He proposed to me, I said yes, now what? Do we hold hands and skip on over to the justice of the peace, sneak off to a private island with 25 of our closest friends and family, or do we go all out and have an opulent, fit for a duke and duchess-type affair? Believe it or not, this was a really tough decision. We knew we would get married but we knew not how. I will say this; we are quite happy with our decision but it is certainly not without it’s drama. Turns out saying “yes” was the easy part.

 See?  No matter where you are in your planning just remember: doubts about how extravagant a wedding should be are VERY common. Even Ms. Williams knows this one day is not worth doing into debt over; “she set a budget and everyday [she] fight[s] to stick to it.”

Williams will wear a Maggie Sottero gown.  Standing up for her will be actresses Terri Vaughn, Vanessa Williams, Nicole Ari Parker and her sisters Leslie Dunn and Lisa Sorenson.

I know everyone wants to see pictures! 

Above left is Malinda with her two sisters and their mother.  The favors included a cookbook by celebrity chef G.Garvin Make It Super Simple with G. Garvin and a slice of cake to take home! 

The location was beautiful!                                              Malinda Williams and Tasha Smith

Take a look at more of her shower pictures on Essence.  Read about the shower here.

Oh, last but not least her inspiration…

She would like a vintage yet modern feel to her wedding.  Will keep all my BAB’s posted with pics from the wedding!